A time for truth, change and care

EDITORIAL

As Christmas approaches, its true message of acceptance, understanding and care feels more urgent than ever.

For too many locals, these ideals are overshadowed by the realities of domestic and family violence (DFV).

This season, we must confront the truths about DFV and commit, as women and men, to create a culture where violence and coercion have no place.

Recent events, such as Lucy Wicks’ brave disclosure of years of torment and the Yarn Bomb installation in Gosford, highlight the multifaceted nature of DFV.

These stories remind us that abuse takes many forms; physical violence, coercive control, financial manipulation and emotional harm.

They also show that addressing DFV requires not just individual courage but community responsibility.

DFV statistics remain alarming.

Around one in four women and one in 13 men experience violence from a partner.

Each week, on average, a woman’s life is lost to domestic violence, and police handle hundreds of related incidents daily.

Behind these numbers are real lives, each carrying untold pain and suffering.

Initiatives like the Yarn Bomb installation, wrapping Gosford’s trees in messages about DFV and support resources, are vital in raising awareness.

However, awareness alone cannot dismantle a culture of violence.

Real change requires action, by both women and men, to build a society rooted in mutual respect, empathy and care.

Women have long led the charge against DFV, but men must step up as allies, advocates and role models.

Change starts with how we raise our children, how we speak in workplaces and how we respond to those in need.

It’s about fostering understanding and challenging harmful behaviours in our communities.

This Christmas, let’s honour its true spirit by rejecting violence and coercion in all forms.

Let’s replace them with acceptance and compassion, creating safe, supportive spaces for everyone.

It’s a responsibility we all share and a gift we must give; not just during the festive season, but every day.

Together, we can create a culture of peace, healing, and hope.

David Abrahams – Managing Editor